Friday, January 13, 2006

Betrothal season

Ya its betrothal season right now. varun, my college time friend got married to jinni. ,Ankur has got enganged to his beloved shivani,and another grad college friend Sandeep, got married to his mom's choice in dec( so sad hainaa....). and ofcourse, Prince, my very dear, is about to celebrate his first wedding anniversery this april.Nidhi also tied this knot last year. Dude, its like every other day some or other person is getting married or engaged.Donno what to say in such a situation. I have kind of mixed opinion about it all.. for a couple of them, its good that they r getting married, that was the best way out to drive them out of depression.For others its like succumbing to male dominance n turning in to a typical Indian homely housewife type female. My friend sets the example of how much a relationship can change a person.. dude, he's(my school time frnd) become utterly "sampooran Bhartiya pati". cant belive a person like him could ever be like this...may be... but I guess the answer to this question is both the reasons together. I have changed, so has he.Seeing these kind of incidents makes me dislike the institution of marriage. Why the hell should give up your friends, even male friends after marriage, anyways Coming back to the main point, it depends upon the person whom u r marrying. If u marry a narrow minded idiot, u r doomed.. or atleast a person like me is surely gonna be doomed.. but if u get someone really goodie goodie.I guess I did find some one to fit in my frame long time back. it seems so idiotic to think about her even now,but thats a long way past for me.....You might want to ask me that When am I gonna get married?.I don't know With whom do I intend to get married? i don't know only time can tell.. just hoping that it bring 3 smiles in my life.. How will I get 3 smiles in my life ...I don't know....Anyway.. gtgn (got to go now ) Ciao

Cheers !!!

3 Comments:

At 10:13 AM, Blogger Vikas ( Vicky) said...

hello ji,

Its not that people forget the friends after marriage, its all about priority only. Which keeps on changing at different steps of life. so i think that its not fault of yor friend, life is like this only.


3 smiles.....
i am waiting to see the 4th sdmile on yor face, realy i do. Which will not disapear at all, it will reamin with you for throughot yor life even after life.

So pls pls finish my waiting.....

 
At 10:13 AM, Blogger Vikas ( Vicky) said...

hello ji,

Its not that people forget the friends after marriage, its all about priority only. Which keeps on changing at different steps of life. so i think that its not fault of yor friend, life is like this only.


3 smiles.....
i am waiting to see the 4th sdmile on yor face, realy i do. Which will not disapear at all, it will reamin with you for throughot yor life even after life.

So pls pls finish my waiting.....

 
At 2:51 AM, Blogger abnegator said...

gajab.. cool that you kept on blogging... ;)

 

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